Is this your first time participating in our Worship Services?
First of all: Visitors are Always Welcome!
We
are mindful of the Scripture, “Do not forget to greet strangers,
for by so doing some have unwittingly greeted angels”
(Hebrews 13:2).
Relax: Don’t worry!
In
welcoming you we know that some aspects of Orthodox worship might be
different. Come in and take a seat. We are very careful
never to judge anyone or their behavior!
Do not hesitate to ask!
We
try to be quiet during the services so as to focus on our worship, but
please do not hesitate to ask one of the faithful for help. They will
be glad to bring you a Service Book (and help you find the current
place in the service) and also to bring you a weekly bulletin.
Confused? Need assistance?
We
will, of course, answer any immediate questions you may have. We might
appear like we are ignoring you but this is not so – we are
very aware of your presence and will not mind in the least if you ask
us for assistance.
Join us for fellowship after the Sunday Service!
After
Sunday services we have a fellowship hour, a time of food and drink
together either inside the church or outside in the parking lot
(weather permitting!). You are invited to join us so we can get to
know each other. No one will ever put any pressure on you to join the
Church; many people “visit” our Church for years. Please relax and
feel at ease.
About posture in during our worship Services.
Posture
is part of Orthodox practice, since we worship God with our bodies as
well as with our words. You will see that people at times bow, make
the sign of the Cross, etc. If you are not Orthodox, of course no one
expects you to do these things — just sit or stand and listen, and
participate to the degree that you wish. No one will judge you!
Should I stand and/or kneel?
Standing
and kneeling are the Biblical postures for prayer, and Orthodox
traditionally stand throughout the services.
What if I want to sit?
Don’t
worry! For most people the habit of standing throughout a Service
takes some “getting in shape,” so feel free to sit as you may find
necessary.
Do you have chairs or pews?
Yes,
we do! We have chairs in the church for those who wish or need to sit.
Do I have to kneel?
Again,
don’t worry! Kneeling is considered a gesture of deepest reverence or
of repentance. If you can and wish to do so, just follow the example
of our parishioners. If you would rather not, it is perfectly fine for
you to sit.
Are children welcome?
Of
course: children are always welcome in the Orthodox Church! In regard
to their behavior, we simply apply common sense. Most of us have
raised, or are raising, children and we realize they will move around
and talk.
Will my children disturb the Service?
It
is not a problem if children move about quietly and occasionally say
something. If you have children, simply be considerate – of them as
well as of other worshippers – and take them out briefly when they
become very restless or noisy, especially during the sermon.
Do you have a nursery?
We
believe that it is beneficial and appropriate for children to be in
the services as much as possible. If brought regularly to church,
children will learn to settle down, and it is surprising how much even
toddlers absorb. Typically you will not find a nursery in an Orthodox
church.
Can I receive Holy Communion?
We
understand that this is a serious topic for many Christians, and must
be answered with seriousness and dignity. It is a simple fact that
different churches and faiths have their own beliefs and practices. We
absolutely respect the practices of other congregations and would
never insist on “our way” when visiting their churches. In return, we
politely ask others to likewise respect our customs and traditions.
What are the Orthodox customs regarding Holy Communion?
This
is an important question. So as not to cause any offense through
misunderstanding, we hope that the following points will help clarify
our tradition:
Our
understanding is that the receiving of Holy Communion is a sign of
full commitment to the Orthodox Christian Faith and of active
participation in the Body of Christ, which begin with the Orthodox
Mysteries (Sacraments)
of Baptism
and Chrismation.
In
other words, only Orthodox Christians in good standing who have
prepared themselves to do so may receive Holy Communion.
The
Orthodox Christian belief is that during the Divine Liturgy bread
and wine are changed by the Holy Spirit to become the Body and
Blood of Christ. Their reception as Holy Communion is therefore
regarded as exceptionally sacred. These Holy Gifts are
respected and guarded with extraordinary care.
Orthodox
Christians believe that receiving Holy Communion requires serious
preparation. This includes reciting Prayers of Preparation on the
evening before, and on the morning of, the Divine Liturgy. It also
means “fasting” by abstaining from all food and drink following
dinner on the evening before until after receiving Holy Communion
the next morning.
According
to ancient Christian tradition, an Orthodox Priest may only
administer Holy Communion to Orthodox Christians who have prepared
themselves to receive the Holy Gifts by following the Commandments
of God, living according to Orthodox moral tradition, and
Confessing regularly in the Mystery of Repentance. He is forbidden
to do otherwise, under penalty of being defrocked.
Individuals
wishing to receive Holy Communion and who are not known to the
Priest must speak to the him (or ask a parishioner to send
word to him) ahead of time so he will know that they are Orthodox
Christians in good standing.
What is the bread that I see people taking from a basket? Is that Holy Communion?
No:
what you are observing is the faithful taking a piece of bread that is
not Holy Communion (i.,e., it is not the Body of Christ). This
is called Antídoron which is blessed (not consecrated)
bread. It is placed in a basket on a side table to be taken reverently
by the faithful after receiving Holy Communion to ensure that
they completely swallow the Body and Blood of Christ. Many of the
faithful customarily take a piece of Antídoron at the end of the
Liturgy to bring home. They will eat a portion as a blessing each day
following their morning prayers.
May I receive the Antídoron?
It
is common in many Orthodox parishes to offer Antídoron to visitors.
Since it is blessed, we simply ask that you treat it reverently and
consume it completely – including its crumbs – as soon as you receive
it.
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